May 2015 was an exciting month for me. First, I discovered Red Nose Day, a poverty alleviation effort begun in the United Kingdom that had made its way to the United States. Second, I wrote a blog asking people to submit their Five Words of Gratitude to someone they would like to honor. Then, I got sick and spent a couple of months trying to figure out why; until I landed in the hospital in Philadelphia and met my new best friend, Jude (my pacemaker).
In May 2016…
Jude is working just fine and I feel absolutely terrific. In fact, my golf scores have never been so low. Why, last week I shot a 77…on only three holes! (Just kidding, of course, it was on 18 holes – he wrote without a shred of humility.)
Red Nose Day (May 26th) is thriving. In 2015 it raised $23 million to improve the lives of children around the United States and the world. Red Nose Day supports meals for children; provides reading, educational, and after school resources; provides bed nets and drugs to fight malaria and HIV; supports access to medical care for low income and homeless children and their families; and pays for vaccines and clean water and sanitation. Red Nose Day is becoming a terrific cause-related marketing campaign in the U.S. This year Walgreen’s continues to be a major sponsor and not only can you buy Red Noses there, you can also buy accessories to complement it. The handsome guy in these photos is modeling not only the nose but a Red Nose coffee mug and lapel pin. The lapel pin is a particularly safe choice if you do not want to be caught in someone’s Smart-aleck phone photo that will be plastered all over social media.
Hey, if you are brave enough to wear the Red Nose, though, you will also want to check out the Red Nose Training Manual. The Red Nose Training Manual was written by my friend Howard Macy, a world class philosopher, theologian, and lover of the Red Nose. After seeing my own Red Nose photo last year, Howard sent me a copy of the Red Nose Training Manual. In his Red-Nose Manifesto Howard argues:
Your red nose is not a disguise, but an accessory. People will know who you are, but they will also recognize that, even more profoundly, you know who you are, too.
The little book is a quick, fun read with lots of great suggestions for making the most of the Nose. Be sure to read and let Howard’s Red Nose Manifesto sink in.
I am starting to carry my Red Nose with me when I travel for work. In fact, I am going to try to document its journey with selfies…now that I have figured out how to take one.
The Five Words of Gratitude continues to grow. My original plan had been to write a special 2015 Thanksgiving blog using the many contributions I had received. However, because I was still recovering from the close call with my health, it seemed like a good time to write my own five words. Since posting the original Five Words of Gratitude blog, people have continued to make contributions. I assume this happens as people “stumble” across the blog as they surf the web. Finally, a year later, I am able to feature some of the words that have been shared. I will not give the names of the people who shared them nor will I identify by the name the people for whom the gratitude is intended. Nonetheless, I think you will get the sense of deep appreciation that is being expressed.
Many offered their Five Words of Gratitude and let them say it all:
- To my boss: She celebrates my unique gifts.
- To those who share their wisdom with me: Your sharing matters…I’m growing.
- To my spouse: I appreciate your steadfast loyalty.
- To my colleague: Second mouse gets the cheese.
- To my parents: Thanks for making me believe.
- To my mentor: Your unrelenting curiosity and hope.
- To my friend: Your wisdom, friendship appreciated always.
- To my sibling: Thank you for graciously listening.
- To my spouse: (Name), my love, thank you!
- To my friend: Helping me navigate through challenges.
- To my parents: Thanks for kindling my fire.
- To my child: Grateful to infinity for you!
- To my staff: You care! Mahalo nui loa (Thank you very much)
Others found five words were not enough so they provided some additional commentary:
- To my spouse: Morning coffee, evening wine, joy. – And everything in between!
- To my parents: Support. Encouragement. Love. Humor. – I do activities like this with the children and families I work with, but often forget to apply it to my everyday life.
- To my child: Your smile makes my day! – She is amazing and confident!
- To my spouse: Thank you for being there. – She has always supported me, no matter how crazy my ideas are.
- To my friend: Go to your zen place. – ..Love…Laugh…Learn…Celebrate
Some did not need the full five words, yet their words were full of meaning:
- To my spouse: You make me whole.
- To my mother: Inspiration to overcome obstacles – I remember her words whenever there was a problem: “We will just have to make do.”
One of my favorites was from a midwife, written to the mothers whose births she had attended: Honored by attending your childbirth, to which she then added: World peace begins with birth.
I hope you have enjoyed this slight deviation from my otherwise really serious blogs. My intention? To help you remember the joy in your life; to see kindness and appreciation in our world (in spite of the current U.S. Presidential campaign); and to put a Red Nose on your face.
By the way, I have decided to keep the Five Words of Gratitude site active for purely selfish reasons – I need the inspiration and the reminders to live my own life with gratitude. You are welcome to record your own Five Words of Gratitude and to cut and paste the link – http://goo.gl/forms/XT9OfgQI6K – to others as well. And, yes, I will be sure to share them with you in a future blog.
Be Greater. Do Good. Every Day.
© 2016 by Thomas W. Klaus